A Few Challenges - and Some Wonderful Things!

The last two weeks have had some challenges - what mission hasn't? But there have also been some wonderful things. 

First the challenges:

On November 15, I taught my first Adjusting to Missionary Life Workshop - And all of a sudden, ,there were technical problems! The night before we were to have it, I found that I was shut out of my church account and couldn't access my teaching materials, my power point presentation for the workshop, and I couldn't receive or send emails. The Sister President who was co-facilitating with me had her computer go down at the same time. But, then I remembered that I had sent a copy of the facilitator's guide in an email and I was able to access it through Gmail. So, we went ahead with the workshop. Later. I was able to talk to someone in the General Services Center of the church, along with one of the coordinators in the Missionary Department and they said that the reason I lost access to my church account is that a bug in the program removed callings from a few random people in the database and I was one of them. But I got my access back in a day or so.

Bucket
The hose going down to the bucket

Next challenge - water came pouring down from the ceiling in the bathroom. The pipes from the air conditioner in the bedroom to the window vent in the back room were condensing and the pipes had come unhooked from each other. Water was pouring onto the bathroom ceiling. So, for a week, I had a pipe into a bucket that I had to empty a few times a day. It took me a week to get someone to come to fix it. It was crazy!

Cutting holes in the ceiling
Cutting holes in the ceiling!

Well, things are better now- but first they got worse. My water heater, which was only giving me two minutes of hot water before turning off, finally gave out a week ago. I had no hot water at all. I first asked for it to be fixed on October 26 and our maintenance man came by and looked at it. He told me I needed a new water heater and he would get one. Three weeks went by and he never came back. When it died, I sent more emails, WhatsApp messages, and I even went by the maintenance office. He said he would come Wednesday, then Thursday, then Friday, then Monday. I was pretty mad, but I tried really hard to control it. Finally, he came and put in a new water heater. He also partially fixed the leak- He cut three holes in my ceiling (I now have four). The drip is fixed completely now, and the holes in my ceiling are mostly fixed. So, it was a perfect storm!

Now, the wonderful things!

The Adjusting to Missionary Life Workshop went great! The missionaries seemed so happy to be able to talk about their stressors with the Sister President there, listening, understanding, and just loving them. I could tell that having her there meant so much to them!

Making PiesThanksgiving is a regular day here, so we had our Thanksgiving dinner for Family Home Evening on Monday. But on Thursday, I made a pumpkin pie and a pecan pie and brought them to the office, where we could enjoy them. I was blessed because one of our missionary couples had brought some ingredients from the states that could not be bought here, so I could make the pies. 

But even though Thursday wasn't Thanksgiving here, it was "Brasil Ganha!" Day (Brazil wins!) It was the first game of the World Cup - and EVERYTHING stops here when the game is on. The stores close, there is no traffic on the streets, there are almost no busses running, and the few that are are nearly empty. A city of 12 million people becomes a ghost town for two hours. And, of course, Brazil won!

Brasil GanhaThe second game was yesterday (November 28) and the same thing happened again. Even at the office, everyone was gathered around computer screens to watch the game. Here is one gathering of people (complete with airhorn!). And Brazil won again! The next game is Friday at 4 our time. 

Black FridayI love seeing the holiday season in Brazil! First, the season starts right after November 2 (All Souls Day here). Trees go up everywhere and I have even been wished Merry Christmas early in November. And even though they don't have Thanksgiving, they certainly have Black Friday - and it lasts the entire month of November!Churrasco!

 

 

We went to two different churrascos (Brazilian Barbecues) this past week. One was more formal and the other a more casual one. The food is amazing and not expensive at all. The meat is very tender and nice and there are lots of vegetable dishes (those are always my favorite part).

The work is starting to ramp up here - nearly every hour of my week (9:30 to 5) is booked. But thankfully, most missionaries just need someone to listen to them while they talk about how homesick they are, how hot it is, and how hard it is to learn Portuguese! I love helping them to adjust and it really means a lot to me when I see one who is struggling for a couple weeks and then they are smiling and telling me that their Portuguese finally all came together and they don't need me anymore!

Have a good holiday season everyone! 

 

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Raquel pacheco (not verified)

2 years ago

Amazing experience in try the delicious cakes in your Thanksgiving party. Tks sharing with us.

Mark & Pauline Smith (not verified)

2 years ago

Sister Cheek, thanks, your blog is great! We love hearing from you. Love, Mark & Pauline

Eldon (not verified)

2 years ago

I loved the bbqs there but always ate too much. Like thanksgiving dinner quantities every time😁

Sister Barneck (not verified)

2 years ago

Your second difficulty--the water thing--makes me think of "When it rains, it pours"!

This comment "I was pretty mad, but I tried really hard to control it" shows good choices because words are hard to retract. And again another proverb "You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar". Not comparing the maintenance man to a fly; but getting help from him in the future could certainly be affected by your words from the water heater time.

And we saw that you were wearing your BYU-Pathway T-shirt. Viccenzo must have rooms full of these T-shirts!

I wish I could add our photo from Brazil during a world soccer time when we were riding the subway. Almost no one on that source of public transit. No worries about finding a place to sit!

I'm glad you are not having a lot of hard counseling sessions. Jeff and I thought back to our mission times and neither of us had such resources as you provide. But we did have diffficult companions. We just had to put up with the situations until transfers happened.

Mark Martin (not verified)

2 years ago

Wow, what a roller coaster week of ups and downs! The downs: cyber poltergeists, rain in your apartment, cold showers, and undependable maintenance. The ups: a successful workshop, delicious pies, a winning home soccer team, the Brazilian holiday season, and serving others. Do the ups outweigh the downs? Only you can know that! Sounds like the "Adjusting to Missionary Life Workshop" has you as a student, too! Thanks for the enlightening and enjoyable update!

Adele Cook (not verified)

2 years ago

I love all the photos you sent. It helps me to understand what you are doing there. I'm glad you were able to cook some pies for your own group's Thanksgiving. Those pies really look great!
Love, Adele

Britt (not verified)

2 years ago

Wow! First off, I cannot imagine going that long without hot water. I think I’d skip showering all that time (kidding…kind of).

I’m glad the workshop went off well, even though you experienced a few hiccups beforehand. Isn’t that the way things always seem to go? 😬